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Key Takeaways
- The average cost of raising a child for middle-income families is nearly $375,000, from birth through age 18.
- Newborn and childcare expenses include delivery, baby gear, nursery set-up, daycare, preschool, and essentials like cribs, car seats, and diapers.
- As children grow, expenses for groceries, housing, education, clothing, and healthcare become recurring costs.
- Additional costs such as extracurriculars, tutoring, insurance, summer camps, and personal spending also contribute to the overall cost of raising a child.
- Effective financial management, budgeting tips, and government assistance can help parents manage costs.
Understanding the costs of raising a child may help you create a roadmap for managing your finances, identifying where you can save, and setting long-term financial goals. According to SmartAsset, the total cost of raising a child born in 2023 can reach nearly $375,000, including essentials like food, clothing, and education.2
Developing good money management habits early on is crucial to preparing for the long-term costs of raising children. If you want to feel more confident and prepared for the expenses of raising a child, below are some ideas on what to expect, along with some budgeting and resource tips.
Initial Expenses of Welcoming a Newborn
Whether preparing for your first child or planning for a second, welcoming a newborn involves a variety of expenses. Here are some early estimated costs to consider, keeping in mind premium items or services could cost more:
Delivery Costs
Without insurance, a vaginal birth averages over $14,000 and a C-section is approximately $26,000 at a hospital. According to a recent Forbes article, a vaginal birth will likely cost about $2,700, and a C-section around $3,200 dependent upon the type of insurance coverage and the specifics of your health insurance plan.2
Some alternative options for delivery include home births or birthing centers might offer different, more affordable costs of childbirth but could have higher risks.
Baby Gear & Nursery Setup
For a nursery, expect to budget between $275 and $1,700 for essentials such as a crib and mattress, car seat, stroller, and changing table, according to Costhelper.3
Other baby gear essentials, such as a baby monitor, highchair, and baby-proofing supplies could add another $200 to $500 to your expenses on average, also noted by Costhelper.3
Post-Birth Expenses
When budgeting for a baby, Costhelper notes to expect to spend an average of $130 to $300 on immediate expenses such as diapers, wipes, baby clothes, and formula. Breastfeeding supplies could add $20 to $350.3
Daycare & Preschool Costs
According to a recent article by TrustedCare, full-time daycare could cost between $400 and $1,500 per month. High-quality centers may be more expensive.4
Costs for preschool programs range from $400 to $1,300 per month, depending on whether it’s a private institution or part of a public school system, as noted by TrustedCare.4
Ongoing Expenses for Basic Needs
While the early costs of raising a newborn are significant, financial responsibilities evolve as your child grows. Here’s a breakdown of the essential costs that are typically required throughout their childhood:
Food & Nutrition
Expect to spend approximately $150 to $300 monthly on groceries and food costs for a school-aged child according to the USDA.5 Costs may vary based on eating habits, age, and dietary needs. Keep in mind that these expenses could fluctuate due to inflation rates.
Additional food costs for school lunches and snacks, noted by the School Nutrition Association, could add another $55 to $65 per month.6
Clothing & Personal Items
A recent article from The Ascent recommends budgeting approximately $120 monthly for clothing costs, including seasonal changes and special occasions.7
The Bureau of Labor Statistics states items like toiletries, skincare products, and other personal care items cost, on average $72 a month but may vary depending on spending habits.8
Primary & Secondary Education
While public schooling has no tuition fees there could be alternative education expenses, such as supplies, uniforms, and field trips. These additional expenses could be up to $600 on average according to USA Today.9
Private school tuition typically ranges from $5,000 to $30,000 annually, according to a recent article by the Education Data Initiative, with variations based on location, type of school, and fees.10 Higher-income families often choose private schools for benefits like smaller class sizes and specialized programs.
Housing Costs
Moving to a larger household typically means higher rent, property taxes, or mortgage payments, which vary by location and household size. Additionally, many hospitals require proof of housing before releasing you from the hospital after delivery.
Some additional costs that could increase with a larger home would be utility bills and maintenance.
With a larger household, your utility bills may increase as your energy costs for heating, cooling, and lighting rise. Additionally, more space generally requires extra upkeep, leading to potentially higher maintenance costs.
Healthcare & Medical Expenses
When planning for a child's healthcare, it's important to consider various medical expenses and remember that many hospitals require a designated child's physician before discharge.
These costs include routine check-ups, which, depending on your insurance coverage, Doctor visits may cost between $20 and $50 per checkup according to a recent article by The Pricer.11
Additionally, according to Dental Plans, depending on your insurance coverage, regular dental and potential orthodontic care may add $65 to $100 per checkup, while vision exams and glasses or contacts could add $10 to $20 per exam per a recent Forbes article.12,13
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Frequently Asked Questions
What is the average cost of living for a family of 4?
The average cost of living for a family of four varies widely based on location but according to a recent article from NerdWallet, the cost is approximately $101,514 per year.17 This amount covers housing, food, transportation, healthcare, and other essential expenses. In urban areas and regions with higher living costs, this figure can be even higher.
Why is it so expensive to raise a child?
Raising a child is expensive due to the cumulative costs of necessities like food, clothing, and education. Additionally, housing, transportation, extracurricular activities and childcare costs add to the financial burden, along with hidden costs such as childcare and unexpected healthcare expenses. Regional variations also affect overall costs, and together, these expenses can significantly strain a family's budget.